Do you know of anyone that fixates romantically on people they can't have? Do they dwell and pine on them for years? The relationship never progresses past a friendship, but they keep hoping and fantasizing in silence?

They may be needing the homeopathic remedy Natrum Muriaticum or Nat-Mur. Nat mur is made from salt, it is a mineral.  This is the main remedy for dissapointments in love. The nat mur patient lives within a dichotomy. On one hand they are needy, dependent , and afraid of being alone. They have to be in a relationship. 

On the other hand they are afraid of rejection. She is afraid of being betrayed, dissapointed or let down by her one true love. She desires the relationship but doesn't feel good enough to really have it. In her mind she feels she deserves to be treated second rate. So she will go after someone she can have a relationship with that will never pass beyond an emotional level, or a real commtiment like marriage. She may go after married men or women, that will treat her poorly.

She tries and keeps the relationship superficial and light. Not showing that she cares, that way she can avoid being hurt. She can live within this horrible prison of existence for years, and not really enjoy having a true relationship with anyone.

Their enitre life revolves around this love relationship and how the other person treats them. She constantly dwells on the relationship and all the hurtful things the other person has done. She will suffer in slience not daring to express her feelings out of fear of the loss of the relationship. These people over time become, alone, aloof, silent, reserevd, bitter and resentful.  When their hard exterior cracks, there is a great flooding of emotion and all of the feelings of hurt, anger and dissapopintment surface for healing.  The main feeling is that of being ALONE and REJECTED.

On an physical level, it is a chiefly a headache remedy, they constantly desire salt, are very thirsty, and can even sweat salt.

Lindsay Tietz, Homeopathic Doctor
Owner  Intention to Heal
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