1.) Look for the change in the outward reflection. The biggest clue is a reversal in the aging process. When inner crapola leaves and self acceptance reign this creates a rejuvination of the cells. When stress leaves the body there is a definite sign. Feeling better physically will usually come AFTER the person transforms emotionally.

2.) Others clues are weight loss, brighter aura, more upright posture, clearer skin, but all in combination with each other. Sudden weight loss may be a sign of illness or a bad weight loss regime. Emotional baggage is called that for a reason, it adds baggage to the body in the form of weight gain. The amount of emotional baggage is directly proportional to the amount of added physical baggage of the body. This is why most people gain the weight back when they go on a dietary regime, because they do not do any real emotional cleansing, so the outward reflection of having physical baggage must return.

3.) Change in the company a person keeps or attracts. Is it the same ole jerk over and over, or is this guy actually NICE?

4.) Look for the change in their clothes, residence, type of car they choose, hair style. Although these can be measuring devices, many people are so insecure and care about what others think and putting on a facade that they will upgrade their clothes, buy that fancy car, and home, even if they have to go into debt. So it depends. You have to measure this one with caution.

5.) Living simpler, and clutter free. Yup, the further you get into this process the more you will dump the possessions, and the clutter from your life.  You will learn that your worth is not dependent upon driving a fancy car, or owning the best of everything. The things you purchase will reflect your beauty within, versus compensating for lack of it.

6.) Look for a change in values and ethics. Does the person in question now care about the welfare of others, the state the world is in, telling the truth and living from integrity?

7.) The outward reflection of dysfunction leaves. You divorce the unfaithful partner , the crappy job leaves, the lying too bit good for nothing friend stops calling, things collapse around you. It seems as if things are getting worse. But this is false, the crap has to go before the good stuff comes in.

8.) Feeling more relaxed and light about life. Not choosing to take offense to every little thing someone else does or says.

9.) Sense of humour and using it frequently. Laughter is one of the most powerful healing forces we have. This is why I use it in my posts. Laughter is healing, seriousness is not.

10.) Liking others, that is the ultimate reflection of self love. We like ourselves, we like others. We dislike ourselves, we dislike others.

Lindsay Tietz, Homeopathic Doctor
Owner  Intention to Heal
Proudly Serving the Danforth Area Directly