Lately there has been this inundation of male/ female dynamics thrown in my face through various avenues.

1.) My mechanic Ms Lube is being sued by Mr. Lube  over name similarity. Mr. Lube wants to sue her over using a name that is basically the same, a play on words. Ms. Lube is an all female mechanic shop. Anyways this whole debacle is really about MEN versus WOMEN. That's what this issue has become. It's no longer about name identification. It's about the rift between men and women that exists in society.

2.) I moved in with 2 men.

3.) I played in a co-op road hockey tournament yesterday . I got to experience some interesting male/ female dynamics.

We think that healing is only a physical thing. No, healing requires that we heal our own inner male/ female dynamics and it reflects outwardly with GENDER wars.

In my opinion, there is a real rift between the genders, and both are doing their best to cope with each other. I have asked myself the question: Why is there so many issues between the genders? 

Understanding that issues with the opposite gender are nothing more than a reflection of our unacceptance of our inner female energy or male energy.

In my OPINION, many men have little acceptance or tolerance for their own feelings or emotions. They are taught that it is weak to cry, or express sensitivity. This is not their fault, they are socialized that way from a young age. BUT emotional sensitivity is what women want from men. Often men do not know how to provide that, because they don't accept their own feelings, so how can they be sensitive to women? The answer is for men to get in touch with their feminine side and accept it. Only then can men truly "GET" women. I feel men want to understand women, they really do. That is so sweet of them. But NOT until they explore their own emotional, sensitive side, and FULLY experience that aspect of themselves. This is the real answer to their frustrations.

Some men want to know how to get women into bed, that's fine. If you do, be sensitive, listen to them, and be patient. That's all men have to do. It's not rocket science.  No need to go to seminars to figure it out, or read the "alpha male's" book on how to get women into the sac. Men talk amongst each other, for tips with women.......bad idea. ASK women, what they would like to see in a man. Only then will you figure it out. And women will be more than happy to answer your "sensitive" question!!

Women also need to accept their masculine side, the side that is intense, sexual, and driven. Only then can women "GET" men. Since I am far more developed of my masculine side, I "GET" men.  Women are also socialized to believe that agression is wrong, and being too sexual gives women the social "stigma" of being promiscuous. It's ok to have a sex drive, it's ok to be driven and ambitious, it's ok ! It's ok to fart, burp or swear.

That is my analysis. I hope it helps.

Lindsay Tietz, BSc, HD
Owner Intention to Heal
Homeopathic Medicine Practitioner and Holistic Nutrition Expert
Proudly Serving The Toronto Danforth Area Directly