There are far more juicy details to give away about how to see through people. There is one  lesson I want to go through today.
It will help you feel more compassion toward others, and understand what's going on with them.

Do you relate with some people and think to yourself, what the hell is wrong with that guy? Why do they behave the way they do? Do you want to smack them upside the head?

People reading lesson:

- The way other people make you feel is how they feel about themselves. It's another form of projection. A different form than name calling.

Examples and stories:

I was at a restaurant eating one day, and the owner kept insulting, putting down, and degrading his employees, making them feel like worthless losers.  I was observing this fiasco. I knew that's how he felt about himself, he feels deeply he is a big loser, that he is worthless, that he can't do anything right. So I wrote him a letter and left it with him, telling him he lost a customer until he can treat his employees with some respect. He was the type that needed to be told how his behaviour affected people, until then he had no reason to change.

Example 2:There is this teacher that I used to deal with at one of the schools I attended. She drives people nuts, nobody likes her.  Do you know why?
She ignores people.  She doesn't look at you, she looks through you, carries an air of indifference, treats you like she's never even met you. Any accomplishments you make aren't even worth noticing to her. Nothing you do will ever be enough for her.

 It's baffling! Who behaves like that?
 
Only a person who feels that nobody likes her, that she isn't enough, that she is ignored, that her presence doesn't mean anything, that her accomplishments are worthless, that's who. People need to wake up and realize that she is suffering and that maybe she needs a hug.

Stop judging and start hugging!

She is the type that needs a hug more than a lecture. If you lecture her, she will just keep behaving the way she does, because it will verify her feelings that nobody likes her. She KNOWS nobody likes her, and YES it bothers her. The air of indifference is the only way she can cope. She is a very caring woman, perhaps too caring. Remember, the more someone tries to coverup their feelings the deeper they suffer.


Lindsay Tietz, BSc, HD
Owner Intention to Heal
Your Homeopath in Toronto and Holistic Nutrition Expert
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